Translation of "stepparent" into Chinese

How could remembering your stepparent’s good qualities help you to respect him or her more?

你记住继父的优点,就会更尊重他。 为什么呢?

Often a stepparent starts with a mythical black eye and goes on to earn the real one.

继父继母在开始时往往以为自己不受欢迎,结果亦真的不受欢迎。