Translation of "halagador" into English

Se supone que soy muchas cosas que no son halagadoras.

Now, I am supposed to be many things which are not complimentary.

En los Estados Unidos es una falta de respeto sorber al comer fideos, pero en Japón se considera de buena educación, incluso halagador.

In the U.S. it is disrespectful to slurp while eating noodles, but in Japan it is considered polite and even flattering.

Me gustaba aquel hombre; parecía ser sabio y ciertamente era muy halagador.

I liked the man; he seemed to me wise, and he assuredly was ingratiating.